11/28/2013

Doug Wyllie, PoliceOne Editor in Chief10-43: Be Advised...
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On Thanksgiving, citizens saying "thank you" to cops

On this day of giving thanks, I want to highlight a handful of stories of citizens’ gestures of appreciation to American law enforcement officers

A few months ago, I was in a little mom-and-pop restaurant and observed two uniformed officers arriving to eat lunch as I was just about done with mine.

While I visit with cops whenever possible — handing them a patch and just saying hello from all of us at PoliceOne — rule number one on that practice is they can’t be engaged in some activity that requires their attention. In this case it appeared that these two guys were involved in a pretty serious conversation, so those guys would not get PoliceOne patches this day.

I decided to do the next best thing. As I was paying my tab at the register I said, “I want to pay for their lunch,” motioning my head toward the two coppers.

“Somebody already else did that,” the cashier replied. I was stuck between being disappointed and being elated. Somebody beat me to it — some citizen randomly and anonymously saying “thank you.”

It’s commonly accepted that police work is a “thankless job,” but every so often someone surprises us with this kind of gesture.

On this day of giving thanks, I want to highlight citizens saying “thank you” to American law enforcers. Here are some stories I’ve gathered from PoliceOne Members. Add your own stories in the comments area below.

The Waffle House
I ran into a situation that really caught me off guard. We had a particularly busy shift that night, so as I finished my tour and climbed into my personal car I realized I hadn’t had a chance to eat. As I drove home I pulled into a Waffle House and ran inside to order a to-go sandwich and a soda.

As I waited, I talked with another officer who happened to be in there at the time, and as is usual with Waffle House my order was ready for me in short order. I approached the counter and pulled out my money, and the clerk behind the counter informed me that my order had already been paid for.

I was surprised at this because it was just me, another police officer, and the staff in there at the time. I asked the clerk who had paid for my order, and she told me that once a week a citizen — who chooses to remain anonymous — comes in and leaves around $100 to be given out to public service men and women of the DeKalb (Ga.) County Police and Fire Department if they come in there to eat.”
— Timothy Paske, PoliceOne Member

A Special Christmas Lunch
One Christmas a few years ago in our city of Smackover, Arkansas myself and some of my fellow officers were invited to a special Christmas lunch at a local business. The owner and employees were so appreciative of how safe they felt and the safety of our citizens.

We enjoyed it very much. They were well aware that it was our duty to protect them and our city, but they insisted that we join them for that special lunch.
— Rickey Brown, PoliceOne Member

The Truck Stop Judge
There were four of us eating at the truck stop diner. When we got up to pay we were told, “That man paid for all of you.”

I looked out the window and saw the county judge getting in his car. That impressed me.
— Don Massengill, PoliceOne Member 

The Elderly Man and the Young Lady
One day I was taking my meal break on a shift that was not very family-friendly. I’ve got a teenage daughter, a son with special needs, and a newborn daughter at home. I was missing the family time when an elderly gentleman walked up to where I was seated. I braced myself for a wise crack or a question on legal advice I’d be unable to provide.

He said, “God bless you, and thank you for what you do.”

I told the gentleman how much I appreciated hearing that because we do not hear it enough, and that it was perfect timing. I really needed to hear it on this particular day.

The man walked off, and after a few minutes passed I got up to leave. A young lady approached me and stated, “I just wanted to say thanks for what you do for us and pray that God keeps you safe.”

I told her “thank you” with a big smile on my face. With my batteries recharged, I was ready to serve the citizens of my county. Sometimes this is all the thanks we need!
— Paul Masselli, PoliceOne Member

Stuck in the Mud
I am lucky enough to be assigned to my department's Marine Unit and patrol the 27 miles of my city's coastline. One afternoon, I got a phone call from Ritchie, the manager at one of the local marinas. He told me a customer's sailboat had gone aground right off the dock and that Tony, one of the marina employees, was going out to assist, and if I was in the area could I help him out.

My shift had ended and I was in my car on the way home, but Ritchie and Tony have always been good to me, so I turned around and got my patrol boat underway.

It was about an hour before low tide, and the big 36-foot sailboat was hard aground to the point that we couldn't pull her off no matter what we tried. We helped the Captain set his anchor and I headed home after a long day.

The next day, my boss forwarded me this email:

Dear Lieutenant, 
My sailboat went aground yesterday afternoon just off my slip at the Marina. Officer Mike Foley responded to the call for assistance. I wanted to let you know that Officer Foley did a terrific job trying to help get the boat out of the mud as well as calming my crew. In the end, I had to wait for the tide and successfully refloated and made it into my slip. Mike was a real gentleman and should be commended. He is a credit to your Unit. 
Sincerely,
Mark

I was really touched that Mark, who I later learned is a prominent doctor, had taken the time to find my supervisor’s email address and write that note.
— Mike Foley, PoliceOne Member

Pizza Paid For
Another trooper and I were eating at a pizza place. A guy in a business suit came in after us, sat by himself at the table next to us, and never looked at us or talked to us. He finished quickly and left. Before we got up to go pay for our meals, the waitress came and took our bill — told us that guy paid for us. It was very nice of him, but I wish we could have thanked him somehow.
— Garrett Bondhus, PoliceOne Member

Hat’s Off to You
I was working a traffic accident on an overpass on a very windy day in south Texas. About a week before, I’d just bought a new uniform baseball cap (the money comes out of my own pocket). As I was working this accident the wind blew my cap off, and I saw it fly down to the underpass below, which is a heavily traveled road. I gave it up for lost, knowing that it would be either run over or taken by someone and I would never see it again.

I finished with the accident scene and started to return to the station when dispatch advised that someone under the overpass had seen my cap fly off and they recovered it and brought it to the station. I was pleasantly surprised. Of course, en route to the station call after call popped up and I wasn’t able to make it back in a timely manner.

By the time I got back to retrieve my cap and thank the citizen they were gone. I never got a name or anything so I never knew who to show my gratitude to. The cap was rather expensive on a policeman’s salary. That’s one story that stuck out... I have a very few more.
— Rogerio Garcia, PoliceOne Member

Life Is Like a Box of Tacos
After I cleared a traffic stop a random female gave me a box of tacos that she just bought from Taco Bell. The female said, “This may sound cheesy, but you guys are unappreciated” and gave me the box of tacos.

It caught me off guard that this female went out of her way and spent her hard-earned cash to just say thanks. I’m very cautious about eating food from random people, but I had a good feeling about this person.

Faith in humanity restored that night.
— Jason Pavlige, PoliceOne Member

About the author

Doug Wyllie is Editor in Chief of PoliceOne, responsible for setting the editorial direction of the website and managing the planned editorial features by our roster of expert writers. In addition to his editorial and managerial responsibilities, Doug has authored more than 750 feature articles and tactical tips on a wide range of topics and trends that affect the law enforcement community. Doug is a member of International Law Enforcement Educators and Trainers Association (ILEETA), and an Associate Member of the California Peace Officers' Association. He is also a member of the Public Safety Writers Association, and is a three-time (2011, 2012, and 2014) Western Publishing Association "Maggie Award" Finalist in the category of Best Regularly Featured Digital Edition Column. Even in his "spare" time, he is active in his support for the law enforcement community, contributing his time and talents toward police-related charitable events as well as participating in force-on-force training, search-and-rescue training, and other scenario-based training designed to prepare cops for the fight they face every day on the street.

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